Black Lives Matter

Black lives matter.

We at Adoptions of Wisconsin have been pretty quiet about the BLM movement on social media, as we consider what we can and should do. We recognize that Black people in America suffer as a result of systemic, institutional racism that creates disparities in health outcomes, educational and economic opportunities, and the impact of state violence. We also understand that white people benefit from many of these same systems.

But quiet is no longer helpful. So, first we look within.

As an adoption agency we recognize that the adoption triad (expectant parents, adoptive parents and children) does not exist in a racial vacuum. We are aware that the people we serve, and their families, may have been treated differently by various institutions as a result of their race. This concept will be articulated and made part of our official agency policies. We cannot allow ourselves to forget and we must strive to do better.

Next, we will look to children in our community. If adults are stressed by racial disparity, as well as Covid-19 and the economy, imagine the effects felt by children. We have been considering where our charitable dollars will most help children in our community, and we encourage others to do the same, if they are able.

AOW will contribute to Lussier Community Education Center (“LCEC”) where our social worker, Katy, is doing important work as a volunteer. Lussier is helping children faced with food insecurity by beginning their summer-camp programs, keeping their food pantry open and delivering weekly food boxes to families in need. LCEC has also began a “Support and Solidarity Network” to connect with neighbors and mobilize to meet specific needs.

Finally, we recognize that our children’s first and most significant teachers are their parents. AOW’s preadoption training has always included education on race issues. We are now asking our families to think even more critically about race as part of their home study process. We are prioritizing educating ourselves and encouraging our families to read and learn more about anti-racism. This article, for example, provides a useful starting point for parents looking for ways to begin these discussions with their children.

These steps reflect our values. AOW supports the Black Lives Matter movement.