With an open adoption, you can stay connected with your child even after placement.
As the expectant parent, you get to determine the type and amount of contact you’re comfortable with. These preferences will be outlined in an open adoption agreement that you and the adoptive family create together. This will ensure everyone is on the same page.
In this article, we’ll go over what a Wisconsin open adoption agreement is, what your rights are as a birth parent and how to create an agreement that works for you and the adoptive family. If you have questions about open adoption, contact us online or call or text 608-821-8221.
What Is an Open Adoption Agreement?
An open adoption agreement, also called a post-adoption contact agreement (PACA), is a written document outlining the ways you and the adoptive family will stay connected after your baby’s adoption. This agreement includes your preferences for contact, which might involve sharing letters, emails, photos, video calls or in-person visits.
For both birth parents and adoptive families, an open adoption agreement serves as a foundation for a healthy relationship. It gives you the opportunity to stay involved in your child’s life to the extent that feels right for you, and it helps adoptive families honor your wishes and support your child’s emotional well-being as they grow up.
Are Open Adoption Agreements Legally Enforceable in Wisconsin?
In Wisconsin, open adoption agreements are not legally enforceable. This means that while you and the adoptive family can draft an agreement based on your communication preferences, it won’t be a legally binding document.
However, open adoption agreements are still important. They create a clear plan for staying in touch with the adoptive family over the years. Many adoptive families view their children as the most incredible gifts, and they recognize how beneficial it is for children to have a connection with their birth parents. Even without legal enforceability, most adoptive families are committed to honoring the contact agreement.
To support a strong post-placement relationship, we’ll help you find an adoptive family who shares your preferences and values the relationship you want to build.
What Rights Do Birth Parents Have in an Open Adoption?
You have specific rights throughout the adoption process. As an expectant parent, you’re in control every step of the way. This includes:
Deciding how much contact you want
Planning the hospital stay
Choosing your baby’s adoptive family
Consenting to the adoption
We will connect you with an adoption attorney who will ensure your rights are upheld and that the adoption is in accordance with Wisconsin laws.
How Do You Create an Open Adoption Agreement?
Here are three steps to help you create an open adoption agreement:
Step 1: Pick an Adoptive Family Who Shares Your Contact Preferences
You can browse waiting families online, or your social worker can present you with profiles of hopeful adoptive families who align with your preferences. If you don’t find the right family, that’s okay. We will ensure you find the right fit for you and your baby.
Step 2: Get to Know the Potential Adoptive Parents
After you’ve found a potential family, spend time getting to know them. Ask about their values and their vision for your ongoing relationship. The more you talk, the better you’ll understand how they view open adoption.
Step 3: Work With Your Social Worker to Create an Open Adoption Agreement
Your social worker will help you outline your communication preferences in your open adoption agreement. This can include setting up regular updates or planning visits for special milestones.
What Are the Benefits of Open Adoption Agreements?
Research shows that open adoption can benefit everyone involved, including birth parents and adopted children. This arrangement creates opportunities for meaningful connection, transparency and emotional support.
Open Adoption Benefits for Birth Parents
Transparency about your child’s well-being
Peace of mind about your decision
Opportunity to maintain a relationship
Open Adoption Benefits for Adopted Children
Strong sense of identity and heritage
Love and support from two families
Access to important medical background
Are You Ready to Move Forward With an Open Adoption?
Open adoption can help you stay connected with your child even after placement. If you’re ready to take the next step, fill out our contact form or call or text 608-821-8221. We’ll help you create an adoption plan that fits your needs and connects you with the right adoptive family.
